It’s been 40 days since I was started on oxygen. In that time, I’ve learned a lot about what it is like to be treated differently now that my illness is no longer an invisible entity. First of all, people are nicer to me. I don’t mean that they weren’t before, but I’ve definitely noticed a change. People smile more, say hello while passing me, go out of their way to ask if I am doing ok, give up their seat for me and all in all are very kind. I love it, I am able to see what I’ve always known before, that people, in general are kind, mean well and want to help.
What is bothering me is that it has been 40 days since anyone has said anything about my height. Pretty much EVERY DAY of my life before 02, someone would make a comment, make a jab or joke about how short I am. But now that I have 02, it is like people are too scared, don’t notice or think I am too fragile to handle it. Guess what people, I am not. I am still the same sarcastic, funny, feisty woman I’ve always been. I am still short and I will not break if you tease me! I may kick you in the shin but I will not break!
Today ended that 4o day streak! A women got into the elevator with me at work and immediately said, “I like you!”. I told her I know why she liked me as she were only an inch or two taller, and she agreed and we laughed! It was great! Yes, I will admit, I have gotten angry sometimes at peoples comments but that was mainly due to their delivery. Who knows, maybe now I am just being over sensitive and want to be treated like I am used to, not like some doll that people pity.
Ha! That’s awesome. You are forever short answer spunky. I know! And forever, NY hero.
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Thanks, love you sister!
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Are you short? I just thought you weren’t all that tall. I thought your height was cool after I figured out you weren’t Scotts daughter! Lol.
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Glad you are up and doing well half pint, We love ya
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There is no way I will ever say anything about your vertical challenges, ever again. You scare me!
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still my favorite short person
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This is awesome! My pediatrician always told me, “Big things come in small packages.” 🙂
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That’s right!! 😊
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Drea, I never knew you had passed. I have not seen you for over 20 years. We were buds in gradschool. you were cool af and your Spouse Scott is lucky to have started a family with you. Wouldve been cool to touch base. I just informed Corey and Simone and they are sad. Simone is head of SW at Eastern State can you believe it! Corey married Michelle and they have a cool dtr together. I am glad you made an impact in so many lives and ache inside for your passing. RIP
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Thank you for the kind words Marco. Drea always spoke kindly of the program and many who were in it. She is still impacting, inspiring many of us, and I will continued to stay inspired by her! Thanks again for the lovely comment 🙂
– Scott
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